According to the Myers-Briggs personality charts, there are sixteen distinct personality types. One of these personality types is the INTJ which stands for Introverted, Intuitive, Thinking, And Judging. The INTJ personality type has a strong strategic thinking trend and those who have this personality type are typically quite logical, they also have a lot of problem-solving skills using creativity.
The INTJ is a personality type that is very loyal and loving. In fact, if the INTJ likes you, you’re going to know it! Whether or not your INTJ partner likes you or not will never cross your mind because you’ll always know where you stand. Here are some of the ways to tell if an INTJ likes you.
1. The INTJ is a very open person.
IF they like you, they’re going to tell you, and you won’t have to wait long to find out. Many feel that the INTJ is a rather cold and calculating type of person, but it is only until you get to know them. Once you get to know the INTJ, there won’t be any questions about whether or not they like you. If they like you, they will tell you without mincing words. They simply start out evaluating you (just as you’re likely evaluating them) and then once they get to know you, they’ll begin to share their life with you.
2. They include you in the future.
If you’re talking with an INTJ and you’re out on a date, you can know that they like you by listening to what they have to say. Are they including you in future plans? They may start out with something along the lines of “Next weekend on our walk…” or something that cues you in that they’re making plans for a future with you. It may be subtle so listen carefully.
3. They give wonderful compliments.
The INTJ isn’t going to give you a run-of-the-mill compliment. Instead, they’re going to dig deep and find something truly unique about you to compliment you on. If you receive this type of compliment, you can rest assured that they like you. The more unique the compliment, the better they like you.
4. The INTJ is a very loyal personality.
If they like you, they will defend you to the ends of the earth. The INTJ will always have your back and you’ll never feel more loved if they are on your side.
5. They prefer your company.
As an introverted personality type, the INTJ is very comfortable being alone, however, if they like you, they would rather be with you than alone. Despite being an introverted personality type, the INTJ is very happy to be with you and actually prefers it.
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6. You may feel like you’re in an interview or being interrogated.
The INTJ will take the initiative to ask you as many questions as possible to get to know you better. You may not even be able to get a word in edgewise while they’re trying to get to know you. If they’re into you, you’ll know it by the number of questions that they’re asking.
7. They’ll care about what is going on in your life.
After the INTJ has asked you a lot of questions, they’re going to start asking you more pertinent questions that they know are meaningful to you. If you have a specific hobby or passion, the INTJ is going to learn all that they can about it and encourage you and help you achieve your goals in that department.
8. They’ll begin to help you so much that they nearly take over your projects.
If they’re into you, you’ll know because they are right beside you in all that you do helping you. In fact, they may take over the entire project if you’re not careful. This isn’t to be mean to you or meant to imply you aren’t capable. It’s to help you and free up your resources so that you can concentrate on the more important features of what you’re doing.
9. If the INTJ likes you, they will randomly show up wherever you’re at.
They’re not stalking you, they’re just drawn to you like a magnet and want to be around you because you light up their world. They truly enjoy being around and helping you so they want to be wherever you are and help you as much as they can. This may seem like you’re being stalked in a newer relationship however, it’s just their way.
10. They improve your home or office surroundings.
If you’re with an INTJ, don’t be surprised if they bring you a plant to your office or back patio to enjoy. They love sprucing things up and surprising you by helping to improve your surroundings. They thrive on knowing that they’re making your life just a little bit better each step of the way. They will do whatever they can think of to help improve your surroundings at home and at work.
There are other little things that the INTJ may do to show you that they like you, but these 10 are the main ones that will make your INTJ stand out from the crowd. If you have an INTJ in your life, pay attention to the subtle signs that they do to make your day a little bit better.